Saturday, June 14, 2014

Can you juggle?




It's World Juggler's Day!
I can juggle - juggle being a mom, wife, businesswoman, crafter.... but actual juggling? No. I'm more like Dianna here:

Lawrence was able to keep some cat toys up in the air just a little better:

I didn't try. Not going to, either.

It's also Flag Day. I am surprised I do not have a flag. I have to remedy that this year.

If you know my normal life, you know that it's been crazy last week and this week. I'm glad I kept up with the blog, although I'm not typing much. Some days, I'm not going to have much to say about the national day, but I will still tell you it is and make sure I will let you know what the next day is as well.

Tomorrow:
Father's Day
Smile Power Day (another fun one!)

Friday, June 13, 2014

I didn't do it!


Today, the kids, hubby, and I had a great "Blame Someone Else" day. We're always silly, anyway, so this was just a way for us to continuously blame someone else for a pinch, a tickle, a push while walking through the mall, and of course, a smell. 



Then, there's also Sewing Machine Day. There are actually TWO sewing machine days - today, June 13th and September 10th. Why two? Don't know. But September 10th is the day the sewing machine was patented. So... we'll just not ask questions and celebrate both days. 

I tried sewing. I realized that my lack of being able to draw a straight line hinders me from creating on a sewing machine. Dianna can sew rather well. She's made a skirt and fixed a few items here and there. All I've made was a sack that I call a dress. 

Yeah. I'll stick with crochet. 

Tomorrow:
Flag Day
World Juggler's Day (can't do that, either)









Thursday, June 12, 2014

Red Rose Day!


I actually am not a fan of most cut flowers. They die. I think they're a waste of money. Although I do like when my husband buys me gerbera daisies. Those are beautiful. He even recently bought me a bouquet of fake gerbera daisies. I have them at my store. They won't die on me.

Anyway, it is National Red Rose Day. The flower of love. The most expensive flower right before Valentine's Day, and the cheapest flower right after Valentine's Day - which is the best time to buy them if you want them.

How do you celebrate red rose day without purchasing red roses? One way is to learn how to grow red roses in your yard. Here is a excerpt on growing roses from www.gardnersnet.com:

Here is the key ingredients to growing a healthy, productive rose plant, whether grown singularly or in a rose garden.
1. Plenty of Sunshine: This is the first and foremost ingredient . When planning your garden, keep in mind that roses like full sun. If that is not available, roses will tolerate partial shade. My rose garden is in partial shade, and they grow quite well.
2. Rich, loose soil: Roses require a lot of food and nutrients. When planting roses, make sure to mix in generous portions of compost and manure into the native garden soil. If this is not available, add store bought peat moss and cow manure.
3. Provide plenty of nutrients: Roses consume significant amounts of nutrients. What you add to your soil will get them off to a great start, but they will favorably respond to additional fertilizer added year after year. You've likely heard tales of fellow gardeners burying the remains of fish, or other animals, under their rose bush with stellar results. These stories are largely true. We do caution you that while your roses will respond favorably, a fish under your plant can cause the neighborhood cat to create a very unfavorable side effect, and likely damage to the root system.
Did you know? The middle number in common fertilizer is Phosphorus. This is the chemical element in the plant world that promotes flower blooming. When growing flowers, a fertilizer heavy in phosphorus will help promote those big, beautiful blooms that growers seek. Most garden stores will have several varieties of fertilizers and ones specifically for roses. When you read the ingredients, you will see the higher phosphorus levels.
Fertilize on a regular basis. We recommend every two to three weeks. Follow the directions on the fertilizer box or bag. Use a higher nitrogen fertilizer at the beginning of the season to promote growth of leaves and roots. Switch over to higher phosphorus as the first buds begin to appear.
4. Pour on the Water: Roses like lots of water. This does not mean they like to get their feet wet. As mentioned above, they like loose soil, which drains well. The right amount of moisture held in the soil compliments of the compost you provide. Adjust your watering to add more for sandy soils, and less for clay soil.
We also recommend you water at the base of the plant and avoid getting the leaves wet. Hot humid weather is a breeding ground for rose diseases. Adding water to the leaves during humid weather will help promote disease. In addition, if you have applied insecticide or fungicides, you are washing it away.
Tip: Place a drip or soaker hose around your rose garden and cover with mulch.
5. Mulch for Weed Control: Do not let weeds ruin the beauty of your rose garden. In addition to "stealing the show", weeds will rob your rose bush of water and nutrients. Avoid this by applying a heavy layer of mulch. Organic mulches are preferred as they will convert over time to compost, further enriching your soil. You can add several inches, effectively blocking but all but the most persistent of weeds. Or, you can lay down black plastic, then add a lighter lay of mulch.
6. Prune and trim: A rose bush will also respond favorably to a good manicure. Prune your bush on a regular basis. A well maintained bush has a full, yet not shaggy appearance. Allow several main stems to grow and develop. Allow enough room between the stems for good air circulation. This will help to avoid plant diseases. It will also cause the plant to focus it's energies on the remaining stems, rewarding you with bigger rose blooms.
7. Guard against insects and disease: Roses are susceptible to both insects and disease. Make sure you know the signs and the treatment.
For more info, go to http://www.gardenersnet.com/rose.htm

Tomorrow is:
 Blame Someone Else Day (he typed that, not me), Friday the 13th (of course) and Sewing Machine Day.

Wednesday, June 11, 2014

I'm creating a National Day!

On my national day calendar, there's no day for today. Soooo... I'm creating my own. 

It is......................................... National Graduates Day!! Woohoo!!

On this day in 2011, Iyana graduated from high school. It was on a Saturday, and lots of family came from Philadelphia. We had a barbecue that afternoon, followed by an incredible family argument (it was interesting, believe me), and then all of the family and friends following in a caravan to the arena where the graduation was held. It was a great time, and the argument was even resolved later. 
Iyana and her boyfriend Shakeel

Today, exactly 3 years later, Dianna graduated from high school. Unfortunately, not as many family members were able to come from Philly, but we still had a great time. This one was in the morning, so we got up rather early, drove to the theatre where the graduation was held, and enjoyed our baby walk across the stage. We then went to lunch (if you live in/near Charlotte, NC, you MUST go to Midwood Smokehouse. Amazing!). We came to the house, took a family photo, and everyone rocked out. Long day. Just as amazing as the first graduation. 
Dianna and her boyfriend Tim
The crazy thing about today, it's my in-law's 48th wedding anniversary! This is the second time they've spent their anniversary here celebrating the kids, and more than likely they will celebrate it here in Charlotte in two more years. On their 50th anniversary. We are going to have to do something special for them. 

Anyway, hence now and forevermore (and other weird smart sounding words), June 11th will be National Graduates Day! Even if no one else celebrates it with us, we'll celebrate it... along with our in-laws. 

Happy National Graduates Day!

Tuesday, June 10, 2014

So I missed yesterday...

... and I felt so bad! I wanted to make sure I followed each day without any interruptions. I was going to catch up this morning. 

Then I looked at what day it was. Donald Duck Day. 
I don't feel as bad anymore. 

But today... today is... 

National Iced Tea Day!!

Iced tea - not that sweet tea stuff the stores want to sell you here in the south... real, two tea bag and grab some ice iced tea. And today, I made it with my favorite tea - mint! I love mint tea, and drinking it cold is SOOO refreshing!

Everyone who knows me knows that I love coffee, but I do love some tea from time to time. I'd rather drink hot tea, but cold is good as well. And tea has so many healing properties - why not drink a refreshing cup on a hot summer day? 

Just remember, brew your own iced tea - so much better! 

 Here's to good health!

Monday, June 9, 2014

Best Friends Day

Better late than never... and I started before midnight.

My best friend.
I met my best friend 19 years ago on a community choir. I joined the choir chasing after this young guy I had a crush on in high school - I guy who I shared an amazing kiss with on his porch one summer. His brothers were funny -- they kept peeking out the door to see if we were finished kissing. About 2 years later, I saw him singing at Penn Station on a choir. I got his info and asked him where they met. I went to visit, only to find out he was on the choir with his girlfriend (well, one of them). So I became friends with the girlfriend and backed off the guy. I still joined the choir.
Later, I met another guy who I had lots of fun with. He was very sweet, and he stuck around me as I was going through a depressed state - right before I joined the choir, I broke up with Iyana's dad, so it was just her and I alone in the apartment. He would stay with me, cuddle with me, and keep me comfortable. It was nice. But he had so much going on, and I was just too much of a bad girl for him (or so I assumed).
One day, the day after our anniversary concert, the choir had to meet at Logan Square (or circle, whatever you wanted to call it). I was rather early, so was my soon to be best friend. We hung out that day, and the next weekend, I asked him out on a date.



19 and a half years and five kids later, I still love my best friend. People think I'm crazy to say my husband is my best friend. But even my Nicole (my sister from another mister) understands our strange best buddy relationship. He's my comedian, my caretaker, my business partner, my partner in parenting, my confidant. I still don't know why God put the two of us crazies together, but I thank Him all the time for my Lawrence. 

He is my best friend.